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Relationship advice

 
 
007zoro
 
Reply Wed 18 Oct, 2017 01:56 pm
I like a girl and she is also interested in me because she approached me . But the problem is that I talked to her and she is nice but she doesn't seems to be interested. We have a lot in common but still don't have anything to talk about. If I text her she replies but she doesn't quite makes an effort to talk. She just answers it. And when I don't text for some days thinking she might not be interested she still texts me asking what I've been upto and all. And after that again it's the same with her about not making an effort and not seeming interested. So I don't have much clue about what to do??
 
ehBeth
 
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Reply Wed 18 Oct, 2017 02:01 pm
@007zoro,
Are you interested in her?

Ask her out.
007zoro
 
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Reply Wed 18 Oct, 2017 09:51 pm
@ehBeth,
But I don't know if she is interested or not
jespah
 
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Reply Thu 19 Oct, 2017 05:15 am
@007zoro,
So? You don't need to know how the movie ends.

Life has plenty of mystery in it. Please don't waste yours trying to micromanage and know the answers before the questions are ever asked.

Yes, you might fail. Sometimes that happens. Yet the world continues to spin.

Take. A. Chance.
PUNKEY
 
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Reply Thu 19 Oct, 2017 06:31 am
Might be:

1. She is extremely shy.

2. She wants you to be more assertive and move the relationship forward.

3. She's a recluse and will only communicate by infrequent texts that make you work up the conversation.

Are you up for the energy this girl will require?

PS How is it you know that you have a lot in common?
007zoro
 
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Reply Thu 19 Oct, 2017 01:49 pm
@PUNKEY,
We talked to each asking about each other's interests and we had a lot in common. I would move the relationship forward but I don't know surely that she wants to or not. Its very confusing ....

007zoro
 
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Reply Thu 19 Oct, 2017 01:51 pm
@jespah,
Thanks I'll try
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Thu 19 Oct, 2017 02:25 pm
@007zoro,
007zoro wrote:
I don't know surely that she wants to or not.


you won't know til you ask her out

if you don't ask her, things will not move forward

if you do ask her, things may move forward

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your choices are no and maybe

there is no guaranteed yes
007zoro
 
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Reply Sat 21 Oct, 2017 01:00 pm
@ehBeth,
Thanks for the advice
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