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Sun 8 Oct, 2017 07:16 am
If youre going to cheat and ended up choosing between the two. Who will you choose? Why?
@xxxotherwomanxx,
Why the hell would I cheat? What a horribly disrespectful and hurtful thing to do to the person I love the most.
@xxxotherwomanxx,
https://affairadvice.wordpress.com/2012/12/09/do-affairs-end-up-in-successful-relationships-13/
Quote:Short answer? Sometimes. But not as often as people in them think they will. In fact, it’s pretty rare that two people in an affair end up married, and are still married after 5 years. Those that do marry face this sobering statistic: They are twice as likely to end up in divorce than marriages that didn’t start out as an illicit relationship.
Quote: it’s estimated that only 1%-10% of married men who have affairs end up leaving their spouses and marrying their affair partners
Quote:it doesn’t look so good. For every 100 people who have an affair, anywhere from 1-10 of them will marry their Affair Partner. Of those, statistics say that 75% will divorce within 5 years. So that means, MAYBE 1-3 out of 100 live “happily ever after” with their affair partner after leaving their spouse.
on the flip side - this is a really great article about infidelity and what can happen next to keep couples together
https://beta.theglobeandmail.com/life/relationships/the-truth-about-infidelity-why-researchers-say-its-time-to-rethink-cheating/article28717694/
fidelity is tough
not particularly natural
infidelity shouldn't be a marriage-breaker