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Huh??? She knows you have no money, right?


And she's mad because YOU didn't make it up to see HER?????

Doesn't she have a vehicle????? She is totally disabled??? Why is she angry? This begins to sound like a person I could do without.....

life is just so confusing.

yes i know this is a statement which everyone has said before and that which everyone has felt from time to time


its just that i felt as if i had such a strong had on it. and now it feels as if i have never been so far from understand that basic chemical changes in nature.

one minute things are going great... the next milasecond things are a complete 180...

better wear an iron cup. this one sounds like she has yours in hand

Aargh - you'll bounce, love.


I am still worried about the apparent unreasonableness of this woman's thinking, though.

she doesnt know i dont have any money... needless to say it is a very embrassing situation. the weather was really bad where im at and i told her that i could barely see outside (which was true) but if i had gas i would have tried and made my way. i tried to call her cell phone and couldnt get hold of her. so i left her a message via AIM one that i knew she was sure to get... she came back online and told me she had been waiting an hour for me and that she would talk to me later... even though it was via the net there are ways that you can tell that someone isnt happy with you.

yes i know this partly my fault. i should have put my pride behind me and told her the truth.. yet she comes from a rich family and some of her friends think i am below her... i did not want to give another reason to question me being being below her.

If she thinks not having money sometimes is below her - well, hmmmm - I shall say no more.

Awww Seed !

My sentiments exactly. I'm sorry you're feeling down Seed, but if it helps any, I love you just the way you are and you should be able to be honest with her about your financial problems without feeling embarrassed. We all go through tough times, seed. I don't know many people who haven't had to struggle at some point in their lives and it's certainly nothing to be ashamed of.

((((HUG))))

There's nothing new I could say, Seed. As usual, everybody here is giving very good advice. I agree with Montana and Deb...

We are here for you.

I agree with my esteemed compatriots. If she does not care for and respect you for what you are, she ain't worth it.

Living a lie can be very wearing on the soul. Fess up, and take your chances. It is a win-win situation. If she does not care about your lack of money, you win. If she does, and she skedaddles, you don't need her, so you win too!