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Sat 23 Sep, 2017 09:58 pm
I have been with my boyfriend for two years and we have been having problems. I think he really loves me, but wants more than what I give. He wants to do sexual things and have sex, but I don't. I have tried making it for real that I don't want to do it but it doesn't really work. I just don't know what to do. I have given him pieces of me that I wasn't really ready to give and he wants more, but I don't.
@elentz1999,
End the relationship. There are lots and lots of guys out there. Make it crystal clear at the beginning of your next relationship that you are abstaining from sex and anything sex related.
@elentz1999,
Someone who does not respect your boundaries in this area will not respect them in any other area.
May I ask why you feel this way?
Two years is a long time but there wasn't much information posted.
Too young? Scared? Don't trust him? Not interested in sex?
How old are you two?