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My Marriage

 
 
Reply Fri 4 Aug, 2017 01:37 pm
Hi, I am new here. I got married 2years ago, we dated for 3years before we got married.
When I met my husband he had nothing, not even an apartment,he wasn't even working, no family member ever remembered him or came visiting except his dad (his mom is late), I loved him with all my soul, I was living in a big house with my family before I met him, I can remember how I sat on the ground if I want to eat when he got his first apartment because there was no chairs. I can boldly say that I was really supportive to my husband, he's very rich now (so many cars & properties).I have my own business too, I established the business before I met him with my own money. To cut the long story short, he had some serious financial issues last year, I really stood by him&i spent all I had on him then I went bankrupt. He then told me to stay at home for a while & promised to help me in bringing back my business. Now everything is OK with him finally, he's reluctant to give money to bring back my business, he spends anyhow, he even disrespects me sometimes. Whenever his staff wants to borrow large sum of money from him, he gives them quickly, even some of his extended family members collects large sum of money from him.He has enough but I don't know why he is reluctant to give me something, the most painful part of these is that his family members thinks I am enjoying and swimming in money which isn't true. I got pregnant 3months ago (our first child), what he keep telling me now is that I should deliver first before I start my business again, he said he will give me the money I need before I deliver but I shouldn't start any business until I deliver so that I won't have any miscarriage. Please what advise can you give me? I hate staying at home, he disrespects me sometimes & am sure it's because I stay at home. Can starting a business while pregnant cause any miscarriage? Am just tired of all these.
*Sorry for the long post๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™.
 
centrox
 
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Reply Fri 4 Aug, 2017 01:39 pm
Why are you having a baby with this man?
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jespah
 
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Reply Sun 6 Aug, 2017 04:42 pm
@Saraphina,
Starting a business isn't going to make you miscarry unless you have a bunch of other risk factors. But don't take my word for it (I'm not a doctor, for one thing), ask your OB/GYN.

And I can't figure out how you're bankrupt when you're married - in most parts of the world, unless there is a rather specific agreement between the parties, marital funds, at least in part, are assumed to be commingled.

Can you talk to your own family about how unhappy you are?
Saraphina
 
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Reply Tue 15 Aug, 2017 02:50 pm
@jespah,
Thank you, I went bankrupt because my husband had alot of financial issues , I was always there to help him out financially but I guess I was just stupid . Thanks
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