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How to get back to a girl's life.

 
 
Reply Sun 16 Jul, 2017 06:25 pm
I met a girl in a fb group introverts ( One year younger than me) ,

Our first meet was as follows : She commented on one of my post in the group and told she too have same problem that her family members tell her ' Why so serious' .

I sent her friend request , it got accepted ?

I messaged, "Ah , Hi".

My messages got blocked.*--*. ( I never discussed about that with her).

She also had a nickname same as mine , Topper , her classmates used to tease her. ( She replied on my comment on a post abt nicknames) so I was literally attracted to her as she shared similarities.

I couldn't message her because she had blocked my messages so I got to know more about her by commenting on her posts.
Sometimes I criticized her grammar in her posts and she cleverly defended finding outmistakes in mine and teaching me the correct grammar.We had quarrels at such times and ended up being nice.

On one post in group , it was asked, " Whom here you wanna meet? " . I tagged her saying , this girl" , and you know what , she replied ," And we wont fight because I hate conflicts in real life". I was so glad and delighted!

*** In one of a short quarrel between us we decided to tell each other if our behavior was rude or soothing. ***

I continued short conversations with her through posts ( Because she hadn't unblocked my messages)

Then One Day , I posted on her timeline , " What was your 10 th score?

"She commented , " 95.80 , but why here , you could've asked somewhere else? "

I replied , " I was in a hurry and also you've blocked by messages."

She replied , " I think chatting is time consuming and I don't like talking to a stranger , also I have a pretty few bad experiences with Indian men . " ( She is Indian too)

I replied , " Yes it is , but I don't want to be a Stranger , especially for you ".(this is where Ithink I overflew in my feelings, I shouldn't have said that!)

She replied , " *Don't want* to be a stranger?, I may be a boy posing like a girl , a terrorist or an ISIS agent -------

( Sorry I can't remember the last few words , but they were not abusive)

Then I typed another reply , " I meant that I just want to be your friend , can't new friends be made over Facebook?"
* Error sending message *
she blocked me!

This entire story I told you had a span of 1½ months , and now 8 months have passed.

My cons : I think these are my instincts that would've hurt her-
* Created 3 fake fb accounts just for her.* Sended her apologies through these accounts telling that I just wanted to be a friend.

Her cons : * Couldn't keep her promise of letting me know if I was rude or wrong.

*** I wanted her in my life , as a friend ***

Later on I started to love her!

And yeah , she is suffering from BPD.

Don't know how will you guys react on this but
I'm feeling much free by decreasing my burden!
 
jespah
 
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Reply Sun 16 Jul, 2017 07:01 pm
@Aniruddha789,
I don't have bipolar disorder but if a guy made 3 fake FB accounts to try to talk to me after I had blocked him, I would find that creepy.

It seems as if she did as well.
tibbleinparadise
 
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Reply Mon 17 Jul, 2017 06:14 am
@Aniruddha789,
Wow.
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Aniruddha789
 
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Reply Mon 17 Jul, 2017 06:30 am
@jespah,
So , what is my fault , making three fake accounts just to know the reason behind blocking me?
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Aniruddha789
 
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Reply Mon 17 Jul, 2017 06:46 am
@jespah,
creepy from your side , curious from my side!
ossobucotemp
 
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Reply Mon 17 Jul, 2017 06:51 am
@Aniruddha789,
To many, this is a kind of stalking behavior. It's not clever or cute in any way.
Stalkers scare people.
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izzythepush
 
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Reply Mon 17 Jul, 2017 07:03 am
@Aniruddha789,
You've got your answer. You might not like it, but you've got it.

Quote:
I think chatting is time consuming and I don't like talking to a stranger , also I have a pretty few bad experiences with Indian men .


Now **** off and leave the poor girl alone because you are a creep.
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jespah
 
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Reply Mon 17 Jul, 2017 07:50 am
@Aniruddha789,
Nope, it's creepy.

She said no. You don't need a reason. The answer is no. Accept it and move on.
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Aniruddha789
 
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Reply Mon 17 Jul, 2017 09:27 am
OK , will she forgive me when I meet her personally after becoming successful in life?
Or would she complain directly to police?
izzythepush
 
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Reply Mon 17 Jul, 2017 09:42 am
@Aniruddha789,
How would we know, hopefully she'll tell the police.
Aniruddha789
 
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Reply Mon 17 Jul, 2017 10:10 am
@izzythepush,
OK , that's what I was asking , The Probability.
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Aniruddha789
 
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Reply Mon 17 Jul, 2017 10:13 am
Like she promised earlier , if she would have told me that my behavior was rude or like a stalker , I would then have never talked like that to her.
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Aniruddha789
 
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Reply Mon 17 Jul, 2017 10:14 am
Quote:
I don't want to be a stranger , especially for you


Wish I could've not uttered this line.
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