Straight-gay best friends +personality issues

Hello I'm Toni I am out of the closet gay guy who fell in love with his best friend who had Dad issues, sexual abuse by elder boys in neighborhood and school which made him doesn't trust people of the same gender and i notice him trying to avoid body contact with me even in small stuff but always grabs my butt and when i do him the same he feels annoyed and shy as i think he has this idea that real men should be top (giver) he is so addictive to girls and worships pussy but he makes akward things like telling me "I love you" many times but ignore it and take it as friendship love, and other times he grabs our masculin looking mutual friend's ass several times and giggles when he grabs back and he even kissed him on the cheek and jokingly shows off his ass even though he know our friend is gay and tells him that he likes him as a joke but we three know that he would try him out, we 3 are 23 we both act cute and sometimes people see us sort of girly acting men but when real situations come he denies any homo stuff and act homophobic as if he's into boy secretly and loathing himself and feel ashamed of himself as he sees homosexuality as a sin and fear what would people say about him and sometimes he's paranoid that I only like him because i have this lust, evil, and intentions that i want to take advantage of him even though he's known me shared a room a whole damn year ! So he is frightened lying dude when he's sensitive to criticism and acts like teenagers when is mistreated even in work he hates orders and bossy way of talking our co-workers make fun of him when he speaks sometimes because of his soft way of talking or his innocent way to express himself as he sounds like he was born yesterday so he avoids talking mostly so he is so fragile infront of other dudes but punishes the people who love him and acts so bossy when ever takes someone for granted. Btw he's the kinda people that don't see their acts and so quick to judge, insecure, plays hard-to-get a lot and treats me sometimes like his ex girlfriends in certain ways like thrilling me up and surprising me with things about as he likes attention soo much anyways sorry for this too long articled question and thank you for reading btw I'm from Dubai and my name is not even Toni i just happened to live in a land where homosexuality is illegal and most people are homophobic in here so my questions are
1: Does he really have feelings for dudes knowing the fact that admitted being abused and even slept with dudes for a while but provided me no details except that he was a top and thought the other dude was going to rape him?

2: Is he mentally healthy? ( he handled everything sololey since being born)

3:What do i need to do now ? ( I ignore him these days which so hard for him because he's not brave enough to apologies.

4: What about a sudden French kiss ?( if u sure he's into boys)

5: how to get him in the mood to confess everything?



( he insulted me many times but and we had a lot of fights but i always let him win because he's miserable at work and weaker than me and also i love him so much but he takes my situation as a weakness in me ! and plays the victim and is that he's more impact than i am in every fight ) we both are sensitive to eachother between our mutual friends it's like he wants to prove his masculinity over me by making fun of me but I don't care cuz i'm the strongest and i can keep myself calm even if he tried to fight last two fights we had he assaulted me using his fists as he reached the breaking point because we were not talking to each other in work and I ignored every non-direct reference to me so I stopped the fight not hitting him back he was shouting so loud that I thought his lungs will explode all over me the last fight he in work place where he assaulted me loudly in front of others and called me a pussy where i reminded him about his past and mentioned that I myself liked him lustfuly just like others ( i know what i did was wrong and i regret it ) but all what i wanted was getting a rise out of him because he made fun of me taking Anti-depression pills in front of everyone! This is the worst phase of our relationship we were like brothers 5 months ago 😔 anyways he also had positive things he is funny, confident when not around strangers, creative, cute, loving, kind, generous full of interesting information, stylish, gamer, his smile only changes my mood but now he's not all that, we broke up 5 months ago and he moved to live back with his family even though he told that he is so comfy livin with me more than his family wtf is wrong with this dude !!? ☹️