falling in love with a woman

You can't make someone love you. And trying generally just makes you look desperate and stalker-y.

So don't. Instead, be a friend, and recognize these feelings for the crush that they are. Pretty much everyone has a crush at some time in their lives, even people in long-term committed relationships. Often it is the fact that many crushes are unattainable that makes them even more desirable - and she is certainly unattainable.

So make friends but also open yourself up to other experiences. That is, spend time with lots of people. You may find there are other women you find attractive. You may find she's the only woman you find attractive but there are men you like. Maybe you don't find anyone quite so attractive for a few months. Who knows? It's all good.

Thanx Jespah..Unfortunately we haven't talked at all since my last msg. I never told her how I feel as I never get a chance but it seems even I just wanted to be friend but that failed too because whenever I text its longer than her few words reply. I do accept the fact now she wont like me romatically but as a friend why don't she want to be my friend? that's the weird thing...nothing wrong to be friends right? Oh well...women are hard to understand:(