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Reply Wed 5 Jul, 2017 03:02 pm
So recently my boyfriend of 5 years told me that he isn't atracted to me as much now because everytime I have my period he says I don't show him no sexual attention. Now I will admit that the first 2 days I don't because I am in pain from cramps and I really don't want to be bothered. Usuallh we ha e sex at least two or three times a day when its not that time of the month. But latley hes been saying he not in the mood because of the way i am when it is my time of the month. I want things to get better between us so I need some advice to help bring the spark back that we had.
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jespah
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jul, 2017 03:03 pm
@Ssmith1099,
So he's pissed off because for 24 days out of the year (at most), you're not at his sexual beck and call?
Ssmith1099
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jul, 2017 03:08 pm
@jespah,
Yes he says I don't show him sexually attention for 3 or more days and sometimes not at all while I'm on. My cycles only last for a week so I don't really see why he feels that's way a week isn't a long time to me. He says he still loves me but he is not sexually atracted to me.
ossobucotemp
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jul, 2017 03:12 pm
@Ssmith1099,
Suggest he talk with his doctor about how difficult menstrual cramps can be (I remember throwing up several times in very public places. Not funny.)

Better yet, drop him like a very hot potato: he is way too immature to be a boyfriend.

There are treatments available by now, far as I know. Still, drop the ape.
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jespah
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jul, 2017 03:14 pm
@Ssmith1099,
He is incredibly immature. I agree with osso.
PUNKEY
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jul, 2017 03:26 pm
Incredbly selfish is what Id call him. Self centered too.

It should concern you that he sees you as a sex object but I guess it doesnt bother you.
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centrox
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jul, 2017 03:42 pm
Dump this jerk.
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ossobucotemp
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jul, 2017 03:44 pm
@jespah,
Time for a funny story, sort of. One year I had sort of horrendous bleeding, and finally got myself to let my gynecologist know, after which he found I had a very tiny but very difficult bleeding fibroid.

Before I knew what was going on, John and I went to our first trip to Italy. Yep, the bleeding started again. Sigh, one of the places I love in Rome is the Via del Corso. Yes, I wore pads, more than one, but still then, drip drip drip. We went into a bakery so I could use the bathroom, but that was a no. (I guess I needed buy some pastry but we just left.) Another restaurant that was preparing for the mid day meal also wouldn't let me in. Finally, we walked down the Via Condotti, famous Rome street, drip drip drip, and I zoomed to Antico Caffe Greco. Byron, Keats, Lizst, and more went there. So did I, so did I. Let's say it's a favorite coffee shop now, saved me that day.

After we got home to Los Angeles I had the gynecology visit and quickly an easy surgery. Yay. Many years later I am sort of sentimental re me and Via del Corso.
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tibbleinparadise
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jul, 2017 06:02 pm
@Ssmith1099,
Maybe show him the internet and let him learn how to masturbate. He'll probably need it after you ditch his selfish, immature self.
kapishjewels
 
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Reply Tue 11 Jul, 2017 11:31 pm
@tibbleinparadise,
Good.
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