My 28 y.o bf just broke up with me after 2 months relationship. We get along well, connected and he is kind too . Well, until he said that he is not a relationship-guy material, he cant guarantee and promise me about our future (this is not about his financial thing). He ignored my texts for 2 weeks before broke up with this excuses. I tried so hard to help our relationship, by telling him that he is not gonna facing this alone, i can be with him through this. But he kept saying, "dont waste your time on a bad person who cant guarantee you a future, you deserve better".
He told me we still can be a neighbor as before, we better off from this relationship, we can still sharing work thing or other stories. He said he is relieved now, and it's better too for me. 😢
Please give me advice guys : 1) "is he really concerned about letting me down and giving me less than what i deserve"Â Â 2) "he only making excuses, because his love is not as big as mine" ?
I dont know how to help us, to be honest i love him, but other side tell me he already ignore me this way.
You're already broken up. Don't analyze the reason. He just didn't want to continue.
Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and move on - and as for him wanting to be friends again, maybe ease up on that for a while, for the sake of your own well-being.