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Tue 9 May, 2017 05:45 am
Hi guys, my situation is this one. My partner speaks polish, me Spanish and we all speak English. Hi ex is living in the same country as we do, she speaks perfect polish and english. Since the last year we started to have problems with her as she can txt at 1:30 am, 12am, 23:30, in polish over stuff is not related to there daughter. After many fights we agreed with my partner as it would be fair if all of us speaks in English. She doesn't want, to either talk in English or respect hours), and now my partner started to txt in polish again with her. I don't know what to do, this is new for me, I don't know if speaking in English will make it fair and transparent, or this is a control I'm putting over my partner? I don't like this woman, she doesn't allow her to go ok holidays with us, my daughter from previous relationship and new one with my partner, she cancelled visitations, leaving my daughter upset waiting for the other child, that's why maybe this increase my theory that things have to be transparent? Help!!
@Monica1111,
This is a job for the courts. Your partner's ex is withholding their daughter and is probably violating other aspects of any agreement they might have. If they don't have an agreement, then it's high time they did.
And it can be put into the agreement that contacting your partner can only be between certain hours unless there is a bona fide emergency, and that cancelling visitation is also not allowed, again, unless there is a true emergency.
As for her texting in Polish, there's not a whole helluva lot you can do. And unfortunately you are stuck with her as she is connected to your partner for life.
But you and he don't have to take this crap.
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