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Sun 7 May, 2017 08:09 am
hello everyone,
Me and my husband just got married after 9 years in relationship, we always far from each other but every moment if he had vacant he always texted me and called me. We have a children and im now pregnant for almost 6months. We had fight in phone because he is far from us. i usually blocked him and not talk to him everytime we having a fight but after a 2-3 days we reconcile. but this this time, he blocked me after a 4 days of fighting for the first time but just for 1 day. So i called and called him and texted him to reconcile and maybe im too much thats why he explode but he said he don't want to talk to me yet because he is scared at me but the love is still there. Then he never answered my many calls and text. So, My feeling is so depressed and I'm thinking maybe he had another woman that's why he ignored all my call and text which he didn't did it before. So, i push myself to move a little and stop calling and texting him for a week, then I received a call from him but he didn't answer and he off the call. its was 5 calls he did, so i decided to call him, maybe because he is ok now but he's he hesitate to talk yet. but again for several calls and text he didn't answer one. And again the called me twice in the next day (3am and 6am). What does it means? we really going to bake up with me? what shall i do?
*He really wants to break up with me? sorry of my english, i'm not use to it. please understand.thanks for the replies
@Megumi,
You have known him for nearly a decade and have two children with him, yet you can't ask him directly what's going on? On his end, though, who the hell blocks their spouse?
You folks need marital counseling. This is not going to get any better without you hashing it out, preferably with an impartial professional.
I already asked him, but he only said, he is afraid to talk to me but the lovei is still there.
Yes i know him for almost a decade, he a sweet and loving husband, everytime he texted me there always "i love you" in the end. but all of the sudden he change. Does it means i need him enough time or space or he really moving out? almost a month now we dont talk. but recently he keeps on calling but he didn't say a single word.
@Megumi,
Like I said, you could use a professional for this.
i like too, but how can i convince him if we are far from each other? but this moment i'm processing my visa on my own just to talk to him personally. hope my visa will be granted. i really want to fix my marriage, my family. thanks
@Megumi,
Megumi wrote:we always far from each other
does this mean you do not live together?
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in any case, you both need help learning how to behave in grown-up relationships. go together to talk to a counsellor or priest.
please stop playing games like blocking him whenever you fight. that is not how adults have relationships.
yes, we're miles apart. and that's bothers me most cause we can't talk personally.
@Megumi,
Blocking your husband is the phone version of slamming the door and locking it.....really childish and hard to deal with.
Go to counseling on your own so at least YOU know how to act, that solves at least 50% of the problems.
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