@Mangupiah,
Are you still in your ancestral country, (is it India?), or have you moved to another country, (UK, US, or other), to go to University and decided to settle in that country?
Because if you are not in the country of your ancestors, but a different country, you can always say that you are adapting to the customs of your new land. And in this new land, the relatives are NOT welcome to just move in and stay forever.