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Having trouble with my wife's relatives

 
 
Reply Fri 5 May, 2017 12:22 am
I got married after graduating at University and I supported my wife for 2 years to complete her studies at the same University. Our marriage is only four years old. I worked in a department without any saving sacrificing for my wife's education but after she got her second salary from a job she is currently employed, Brought all her relative to my house to stay with us permanently.
we have very strong culture in our country to entertain relatives and she brought her relatives (Approx: 6 people) in the house without my approval. I have my own relative who sacrificed and they are left out. I am really disappointed and cant control my anger but she continues to depend her arguement of bring them into the house.
Its just fours years of my employment and I need to save up for my son.

We are now looking forward to devorce anytime which I really hate in my life.

How Can I solve this problem of having a lot of relatives in the house?

Please I need someone to give me some professional advices!
 
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Reply Fri 5 May, 2017 01:50 am
@Mangupiah,
Are you still in your ancestral country, (is it India?), or have you moved to another country, (UK, US, or other), to go to University and decided to settle in that country?

Because if you are not in the country of your ancestors, but a different country, you can always say that you are adapting to the customs of your new land. And in this new land, the relatives are NOT welcome to just move in and stay forever.
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Reply Fri 5 May, 2017 02:25 am
@Mangupiah,
Can you build an extension on your house for these people?
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