should I file for divorce?

Hi,

I recently just got married but I feel that since we got married I do not love my wife as I used to. This all started to happen around thanksgiving and we just seemed to get into more arguments each day. We both thought this was because we are having a wedding and that we were both very stressed about the wedding and all the little details that comes with it. Before her bachelor party we had a pretty big fight and barely talked to each other for a week. When she came back she apologized a lot about it but a couple days later we had another big fight. my wife is not white and came home from work blaming everything on racism and that her work was being raciest because she got a promotion and she thought she would start right away but had to wait 2 months. I tried to comfort her but every time I do she pushed me away. This went on for 6 hours were she said every white person is raciest and she said she wants to overdose on sleeping pills and never wake up again. She talked to her friend on what she should do and her friends said the exact same thing I did and was fine after that. I don't get how every time I tell her something she won't listen but her friends will say the same thing but she will listen to them. After this fight my feelings for her went away. I feel like she is also being more disrespectful towards me. After the wedding she told me she hated her engagement ring and wished that I booked the wedding during the summer and not the winter which we both agreed to do winter so we can same money but blamed it on me for picking winter. It seems like every decision I make she finds a way to criticize it. she even says she hates my car every time we drive it and I should buy an Audi which she already knows I can not afford. Our sex is not even as good as it used to be. She wants to watch porn while we have sex and pays attention to the porn and not me. All the positions we do her back is facing me so it is less intimate in my opinion. We used to have sex like 4 times a week and now it is like once every week or 2. I'm just tired of being disrespected and ignored by her. I barely wear my ring since we got married because I do not have faith in our marriage. Should I consider divorce? She does not want to see a couples counselor.