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Mon 27 Mar, 2017 10:51 pm
We have been married 21 years, you know your spouse sexually after so long. After his first and second affair the sex was very different than it had been for 18 years and he swears he only seated and heavy petted, then why did our sex lives go from intimate and sometimes slow and loving and sometimes rougher to completely aggressive and rough all the time? He had new moves and wants things we have never done so how am I suppose to believe he didn't have sex with either woman and why lie about when your busted??
@Betrayedtwice,
Why lie? Because it doesn't seem to matter, as you take him back anyway.
Are you getting marriage counseling? Because that would be my suggestion. Get this out in the open with an impartial professional.
@jespah,
Yes marriage counseling it's required by my state anyway I filed for divorce I'm doing the counseling for 6 months not just for me but for my 3 sons who were devastated by this. I guess I live different because I would come clean if I was sincere. I have no rose colored glasses I trust me and my gut Ali e at the end of the day and I know he is still lying and he knows I will follow through on divorce, he has nothing left to lose being truthful I have all the proof of his affairs, my sons are teens they chose to live with me, so when you are busted and know you have lost all of us why lie when you say you want to make amends??
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