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Sat 25 Mar, 2017 05:11 am
Before comment on this, please consider that my husband and I , due to work schedules , don't see each other during the week that we just have Sundays to spend time together . However every Sunday's evening, we go to his parents to have dinner, which in my opinion, take away from our time as a couple. I proposed to my husband to share the Sundays, give 2 to his family and 2 just for him and I. Well, he refused it.
Considering that, I decided to go to Argentina for 3 weeks instead 2 ( which he previously agreed). Because I thought: why do I need to scarify my time with my family that I haven't see for so long(6 years) and live so far away, just because he doesn't want to go with me, and wants me to come back home soon? I don't think is fair for him to be upset at me over this, since clearly his prioritize his family more than anything.
Do you believe that his is entitle to be upset at me?
@labelledeju,
Well, you kinda moved the goalposts on him by changing 2 weeks to 3.
Why isn't he coming along with you, even for a few days?
He doesn't want to go because he said that I wont give 100% of my attention to him. Has been 6 years that I don't see my family, so what does he expect?
To me, its just an excuse to not go. He never been there, and doesn't show interest to met my family. Its very frustrated.
I think you should be considering divorce or separation if you aren't already.
@labelledeju,
Then he is a tall child.
Who wouldn't assume you would spend time with your family when you are, you know, with them?
He doesn't seem to have much regard for your feelings at all. And it would not surprise me if he is hoping to set you up as his parents' caregiver when the time is right.
@centrox,
You read my thoughts. I am really consider divorce.
@jespah,
Don't take me wrong ,I love his family. But it seems that he wants to make his family my own, so I can leave my family in Argentina behind.
@labelledeju,
Your husband is not only being ridiculous, he is being dismissive of your obvious and reasonable needs. I agree that divorce is the right fix for the problem, as I highly doubt things will get better.
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