@MelMoi,
Here are a bunch of ideas, depending upon taste and opportunity -
Go to Meetup and this time actually talk to people. Don't ask them about Meetup. Ask them about what else to do in the area.
Say hi to your greengrocer and your mailman. Say good morning to the lady walking her dog and, if no one's in a hurry, ask her what kind of dog it is, or if it's friendly, or its name.
Take a class at the local community college or adult education. Go to a lecture at the library and talk to people afterwards.
Join a gym and say hello to the people you see there, and eventually ask them basic questions like where is there a great place for sushi, or where did they get their sneakers. If they are wearing a tee shirt from a road race (or if anyone you meet is), ask them about that event and then sign up for it, train for it, and do it.
Ask the hardware store guy about how to fix a leaky toilet, or the lady at the yarn store what's the best yarn for a newborn who's allergic to wool.
Go to religious services if that floats your boat.
If you like a fandom, then find out when their next convention will be in your area, or whether they will be a part of a nearby comic con - and then go and say hi to people and comment on their cosplay or ask them which episode is their favorite.
You need to do some legwork here, and not just sit at home and reject everything being suggested to you.