@jespah,
Thanks so much for your reply jespah, much appreciated. I am actually in UK. Maybe I'm posting on the wrong forum here possibly... oops.
All I know is that the 2 siblings of my mother say that it will either be split 3 ways and we will receive our mothers share, or that just THEY will receive it all (half and half). I have no reason not to trust them, but was very worried it might go to the husband of my mother who was a scammer. I know that my grandma put all 3 of her children in her will but am unsure what my mother had in hers.
I'll take your advice and see someone if I can, thanks.