Regarding Facebook

Everyone can see it if they hit the little gear dropdown. It is how FB is set-up.

OK Beth, thanks...but that should be confidential, don't you think?.

I think people have to understand how FB works and deal with it.

I've sorted part of that out for myself by putting people into groups - the dropdown will show what groups are excluded - but not show who the members of the groups are.

Yes Beth, I understand how FB works, but the point is that I do not wish that a certain person knows how I set my settings.
How a person sets up FB should be private to that person and no one else.
The fact that this particular person can see that I have set up my timeline so that only that person can see it has created problems.

Also, in a separate issue, I reported someone who was using abusive remarks to me on facebook messenger--and I sent FB a screenshot as they requested.
The next thing I see ( hours later) is that MY facebook account has been disabled by facebook and the abuser still has his activated!

I have left PM on the facebook page and also posted a comment/ question to facebook on their page regarding this.

Their have been no replies to either, and I cannot find any way of getting my facebook account back.