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Tue 28 Feb, 2017 01:40 pm
Hi everyone am 16, am in high school A2 level. Sexuality has always been a problem to me until i recently discovered that am truely heterosexual, but when i was in primary school i became confuse.
I found out that i was a true heterosexual male a few days ago, though i always knew it but refuse to admit and am afraid of it because;
* Being a male heterosexual surely means am the man and i would have to take care of my partner's needs and provide for her security.
* I will always be lustful with no sex satifaction ie, in my poor life suituation, girls will never look at me.
* When i was 8 (till now), i always refused to have a relationship and to admit my feelings for girls because i never wanted any of them hinder my studies, nor unwanted pregnancy etc.
* But most of all what influenced me into refusing my heterosexuality was the fact that am from POOR FAMILLY, coz to maintain a relationship you must be able as a man to provide even basic needs to make you girlfriend happy.
I realise that it is because of fear that i thought i was queer and gay.
And i realise i subsituted gay sex with straight sex because it is easy to have and less complicated that heterosexual relationships, GUYS ARE SIMPLE MINDED.
So could someone tell how to overcome those fears and accept my heterosexuality.
@Nicodem Lights,
Could you please throw in a few more stereotypes? I think you missed the ones about women being genetically disposed to being cleaners, and homosexual men as being terrific at interior design.
You're 16 years old. Don't start worrying about becoming a breadwinner until you are done with school. Make money because you need it to survive and have the things you want; don't look at it as a means of bribing someone to love you.
And, as I recall, you were all sent to drop everything and fly off to - I forget where - to live with what we call in America a sugar daddy. So maybe don't go around accusing women of doing what you were planning on.
@jespah,
Jes I absolutely delight at ev ery one
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@dalehileman,
Stalking now? That's creepy Dale.
@dalehileman,
Quote - Incidentally jes I'n't it remarkable tho how dumb the average S-F-W-SP'ED' must be
I give up, what did you just say?
@ossobucotemp,
Ah Osso, just sorta kiddin'ya
Incidentally Jes, Ossobucotemp, is it not remarkable though how dumb the average SoFtWare Spelling Editor must be
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