How do i get rid of Remote Administrator

If it is Famatech's very popular Remote Administrator program, you should be able to remove it using Control Panel -> Add or Remove Programs. While it's a tool primarily used for remote tech support and so forth, it would certainly be possible to use it to monitor your system, access your data, etc., as it facilitates full remote control of PCs.

here is the website of the program and no its not in add remove

http://www.radmin.com

That is the program I referred to.

If there's no "Remote Administrator" entry in the Add or Remove Programs list, it means that RAdmin was installed using a manual process.

If you can locate a file named "r_server.exe" (it's usually located under C:\Program Files\Radmin) on your computer I can direct you to manual removal instructions.

ok i cnt find the file "r_server.exe" and the program is not in program files

this thing is still on my comp and i cnt get it off someone hlp