@Beachyblues,
Beachyblues wrote:
I keep catching my husband in lies and worry that if he lies so easily about the stupid stuff, is he even being faithful?? For example, I gave him a pic of a collage of us to put in his desk at work and at the end of the day I asked if he put it on his desk and he quickly said yes, and I found it on the floor of his car. I also asked where he went to lunch one day and he told me, but lied...he has gone to Hooters.
The picture thing is weird. But what if he told you he didn't want it on his desk? Would you flip out or make a big deal of it?
Where he goes to lunch, what if he told you he wants to go to Hooters for lunch? Would you protest it make a deal out if it?
The point I'm trying to get at is, most husband's who lie learn to lie because their wife badgers them over things they want to do that are harmless. Sometimes a person just needs to have breathing room. Badgering him over choices forces him to hide or lie.
Any time you ask him about something it should have options.
Do you want this picture for your desk at work?
If he says no, take it as an adult. He should have that option. Sometimes a wife wants to put territorial things to ward off other females at their husbands work. Unless he asks for it specifically it should be optional.
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