hello everyone
i found a teenage girl ( 16 years old ) on internet and we are in same city. we are texting 2 weeks. but we have 3 bigs problem.
one: she can't give me her phone number. she said i can't trust to any boy because i have bad experience with my ex boyfriend.
two: her mother is with her everywhere. the reason is: her mother doesn't like that girl be with any boy. so we can't see each other easily.that girl told perhaps in the future we can see each other.
three: she doesn't text me first message. why ?
i tried to get her phone number but she said please understand me. she told: if my mom see another boy's number in my phone then my mom gets my cell phone for ever.
Seems rather simple. She is not giving you her phone number; however, she an text with you. Accept that this is where it is right now. She is obeying and respecting her mother's orders.
Do I understand this correct.
She does not give you her number. You do not like that.
She wants you to give her your number. You do not like that and refuse.
What do you have to hide?
i am so sorry because my english is not good.
she don't want give her phone number because she was once trust to a boy and after that her mother knew because he made problem for that girl. this is girl's reason.
and i didn't give my phone number because she want's call me with another number ( friends ).
Your English is good enough for me to understand you.
You do not want to give her your number, because she would then call you from someone elses phone.
You are not very trustworthy either.
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Sturgis
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Sat 11 Feb, 2017 12:37 pm
@displaynone,
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no she doesn't like her mother's order...
I never indicated that she does. She is however following her mother's directive and therefore showing both the mother respect. You should do similar and not push her; because if you do, you could well end up with no contact at all.