Should I Apologize the affair lover

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I got involved with a married man for a year. We have never go on vacation together only meet up once every three months while his wife away. He usually asked me to do things but back away at the end and when I texted him he never respond. So I got so mad and lost patience. After two months later He asked to meet me again so I agreed. When We met at the coffee shop I told him I was fine that I don't need a man o. My life that men are just messing around and what I went through were totally turned me off. Then I told him I had to go home. So now I feel really bad for what I said to him even though it has been 4 months. Should I text him the message below to say sorry:
I just want to apologize for what I have said to you in last August. I didn't mean to say that to hurt you. I said that because I was hurt. At the time I thought burning the bridges maybe the only way to help me move on.
. Thank you please no harsh words.

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[+3] - jespah - 02/05/2017Stop feeling guilty for standing up for yourself. You're done; please don't cloud your decision with nostalgia. Block, no contact, and move onto better things. :)

@Lisah2061,

No contact.

It is over.

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@ehBeth,

I thought about no contact but I feel bad about it and partly I still miss him.

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@Lisah2061,

Stop feeling guilty for standing up for yourself. You're done; please don't cloud your decision with nostalgia. Block, no contact, and move onto better things. Smile

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He's MARRIED and he has not come back to you to start anything up. So let it go after you told him you didn't want to start up anything with him.

He was a dead end - and used you.

Most likely, you have been replaced with another "affair." That's what cheating married men do.

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Thanks for all your reply. I actually texted him to apologize but he hasn't text me back. I'm really depressed and wondering if he ever gonna reply to me. In the text I also said he will always have a special place in my heart. Now I really regret that because that told him I still care. Please talk to me anyone. What should I do. I tried hard to forget him and forgive. Even apologized to him. I don't know if he is thinking about my text or just doesn't care about me.

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@Lisah2061,

So - take it as a learning experience.

Block him.

And mourn, a little, okay? Your life is changing and that can be unsettling. Get help from a therapist if you feel you need to.

And you'll get to a point when you can pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and wonder what you ever saw in him.

That day will come.

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@jespah,

do you think he will contact me or he is already done with me? I'm so sad. my message to him sounds needy?

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@Lisah2061,

Go to therapy, and learn about what is making you care about what this guy says.

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