Would like some advice

I am cheating with a married man I to am married. The other day we were both venting about our marriages ~ later that evening when we were talking again I mentioned that I was gonna go to sleep early he said hit not waiting up for haibadn I was like no I tried being nice he stated maybe try harder ~ then said I don't think things are that bad I mean why does he always argue with you and I was like idk why does she always argue with you and he proceeded to tell me his issues ~ I guess I am concerned and wonder if he is telling me to work on marriage so I can leave him alone ~ or is he just asking questions ~ any advice would help