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Co-worker rejected me and now it's awkward

 
 
Reply Wed 4 Jan, 2017 03:49 pm
Hello everyone! So, i have been working with this guy for almost 5 months and we were always flirting in the beginning...And i always knew he thought i was a cute girl and everyone else noticed the chemistry between us. I was always wondering if he felt the same way too, so i decided to tell him i had a crush on him...He rejected me, altough he said i wasnt indifferent to him and that he thinks i am very attractive. He said he wasnt ready to be with someone, since he left a relationship a few months ago... (he also said if this was in another time, maybe things between us could be different)...i said it was ok and said to him, that things wouldn't have to be awkward between us... But, after that, things are super awkward, he cant even look at me in the eyes and avoids me all the time... I regret so much saying that to him, i dont know what to do to make things cool again (btw, i still catch him looking at my ass hahaha)
 
jespah
 
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Reply Wed 4 Jan, 2017 04:43 pm
@upsiiiiiiiii,
And there's rule #741 about not dating anyone at work.

Fine, so you took a chance and it didn't work out. A swing and a miss.

Find other people to talk to at work and, you know, throw yourself into work. Delight in your friends, both at and outside of work and become far too busy to give a damn.
ossobucotemp
 
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Reply Wed 4 Jan, 2017 04:46 pm
@jespah,
I considered posting an old warning about that but it involves a word that many don't like, about excrement. Maybe that saying is out of fashion by now.
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McGentrix
 
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Reply Wed 4 Jan, 2017 06:29 pm
Never **** where you eat?
ossobucotemp
 
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Reply Wed 4 Jan, 2017 06:32 pm
@McGentrix,
Right!
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mark noble
 
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Reply Fri 6 Jan, 2017 12:09 pm
@upsiiiiiiiii,
There are no rules, and the consequences are clear.

You call it 'work', 'personal', 'sleep'....
It's all 'life'.

That, which does not kill you, makes you stronger.
Live & Learn.

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