How to make her want me?

"Hi,____, you wanna go out this Saturday night?"

OP here.

I ment like how to proceed on this thing so that she will eventually like me.

The thing is that I've never had a girlfriend and I've never received so much attention from a girl before. I've always been only a friend, never got any signs and if you understand me atleast a bit, you will know.

As I said we met on Tinder, she contacted me first, we found out that we got to same university and then hit it off.
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Now here is the problem:
I know how to approach her without being a creep, first approach is going to be normal.
I however can't keep any future meetings(dates) interesting, I mean thats what can get you into friendzone, not being interesting --> you don't have much to talk about, she eventually loses interest and you stay friends.

Change your major to Bio-Chemistry and go heavy on genetics. Through research figure out a way where you can alter a peptide sequence in her DNA where she needs a very specific drug to stay alive and be the only one in the world able to synthesize that drug. That should do it.

A. Be yourself

B. Don't manipulate, or be conniving.

Maybe those are in conflict.

If you always get friend zone in the past then don't do what you always did in the past.

Keep the conversation going. There's nothing worse than an awkward silence when with someone new. Keep it light and interesting. Pick up on her cues as in what she finds interesting. Be honest in your opinions, even if they contradict hers. She will respect your honesty. If she doesn't, drop her like a hot rock.

A big clue to your problem is that you use the term "friend zone". This is what males call it when a female does not fancy them sexually. It is a sexist term, because it means you think that somehow you are entitled to have sex with someone, just because you want to. It also demeans the idea of friendship into some kind of penalty box. You cannot "make her want you". Either she wants you or she doesn't. That's it. Period. Men who say they're in the friend zone just don't know how to deal with rejection and project the responsibility onto women. A good first step towards getting out of this mental trap (some guys never do) would be to stop thinking of women as machines that you drop kindness coins into until sex drops out.

I see the dickhead thumb-down brigade have arrived. Click that down pointing thumb all you like, it won't change reality.

Contrex, I so agree with you regarding the fact nothing a man will do will "Make" a woman like him.

Jespah and I are the only 2 woman who have responded, and her's is the only answer that even makes any sense.

"Hey, want to go out Saturday night?"

Simple as that.

For Christ's sake, we're just people guys. You don't have to worry about the perfect thing to talk to us about, "awkward silences" or any of that crap.

It's not your job to entertain us with non-stop suaveness, or the perfect greeting in the hallway, or projecting a thousand and one scenerios so we'll instantly fall for you.

We burp and fart, get hungry and get pimples just like everyone else.

Jesus I hate that phrase "friend zone"

Aren't people allowed to just talk to each other, develop feelings, or not for each other, without putting some really dumb sounding label on it?

To be fair, it's the same crap from females that ask how they can make some guy like them.

2 people, looking at each other, wondering how to make the other like them, each afraid to even say anything to the other. Why, I don't know.

Isn't that pathetic?

Exactly. If she says 'yes', great. If she doesn't, move on gracefully. Don't sweat it and get all hurt and whine about the "friend zone'. Sooner or later you will meet someone who you will date.

It is an invention of entitled males, and much seen in those books and blogs peddled by the 'dating success' snake-oil salesmen.

That's how I fill my awkward silences too.