@PUNKEY,
I found it very interesting that you said, in part"...there's miles to go before he's ready for marriage." The reason I found it interesting is I posted on another site weeks ago, and a counselor said the same thing but with different words in that"he's not ready for marriage." Indeed.
Anyway, even if I wanted to take your suggestion (I'm not saying it's bad) about when he gets bossy, etc, I can't because I've already broken up with him just last night. It was just too much. He's a wannabe player, etc. He called a total of five (5) times afterwards...twice on my cell, three times on my home phone.