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Fri 2 Dec, 2016 12:14 am
Listen... I really need help. I get jealous so easily and I need it to stop. I have been with an amazing girl for 1 year 2 months now. She has been nothing but kind and never gave me a reason to believe she cheated except for one time. She was talking to a boy behind my back and lying to me about it but let me explain. She said the reason she did it was because I never let her talk to friends that are guys without me knowing. Which is 100% True. I get very upset when I find out she has talked to other guys (I don't confront her about this of course because in my head I know it's wrong) Even now I sometimes start huge arguments and get very upset over small little things she does.. And I am causing her pain I feel for my own insecurities. Is there any advice someone can give me to stop being in constant worry and at times ask to call her just to make sure she's not talking to anyone else?
@JoshGeller1,
Quote:She was talking to a boy behind my back and lying to me about it but let me explain. She said the reason she did it was because I never let her talk to friends that are guys without me knowing.
Good. You've identified the problem. Now, I'm afraid it's up to you to fix it. I know that's why you posted here, but I really think it's up to you.
I think you're too controlling if you keep calling her just to ask her if she is talking to guys. Good relationships are based on trust, you need to learn how to trust her. Because if you're too controlling, time will come that she can't tolerate it anymore.
@JoshGeller1,
Talk to your family doctor about setting up some counselling to help you with your anxiety/control problems.
@JoshGeller1,
JoshGeller1 wrote:
I really need help.
Let the poor girl/woman get on with her life without you while you get professional help.
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