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Thu 1 Dec, 2016 11:52 am
I have a crush with a girl who is on my bus. We don't talk that much on the bus but we talk regularly over text. I want to give her a Christmas card with some money in but I also want the text in it to give a hint that i want to go out with her. Please could I have any suggestions. Thanks.
@Danielg1,
A small simple Christmas card is nice (if you are sure she is Christian).
No no no to the money.
Ask her in person if you want to go out.
No no no to the money. That is truly inappropriate.
@ehBeth,
Just thought the money as a sort of Christmas present as I don't know what she wants.
@Danielg1,
No.
You are not at a gift-giving stage with this girl/woman.
@Danielg1,
Danielg1 wrote: We don't talk that much on the bus
work on this.
Once you spend more real-life time with her, you might develop a friendship where gift-giving is appropriate.
Is she old enough to be allowed to date?
@ehBeth,
OK then. Do you have any suggestions as what to write. Thanks.
@ehBeth,
What do you mean is she old enough? She is 16
@Danielg1,
Just give her a card with a note in it that says, "I'd love to take you out for lunch"
Enclose NO money.
"She is 16" How would WE ever know that?
@PUNKEY,
It wasn't meant to be angry saying "she is 16". Sorry if I offended you.