I was a widow with 2 kids for 5 years til I met my husband 4 years ago through a friend.When I was single, I was doing very well bringing up 2 kids, holidays abroad, comfortable house and free of debts.
My stable life was threatened when I lost my job. That was when I met my husband. He promised to care for us.
I was insecure and quickly tied the knot 3 months after knowing him. The greatest mistake of my life.
He lost his job just before marriage but reassured me he has a big project coming his way. Months turned to years the project has not taken off and he has no job.
I paid for everything in the house, kids and him. Got a car for him so that he can find work. Now I am full of his debts and still paying for everything. It has been 4 years now. I have checked and it was true he has a project but it has not taken off yet. I am not a bad person. I can go through hardship with him provided he does not shout vulgarity , being rude at me. We have been sleeping apart for months now. There is nothing I can talk to him without arguing.
I thought about divorce everyday.
My conflict is, I am worry that if I insisted on a divorce now , when his project takes off I get nothing.He always threaten me by that.
Should I insist a divorce or wait till he gets his money and pays off my dept which I believe he will if he has the money provided we are still married.
To wait..I do not know for how long more I can stand . It has been 4 years and I have no savings at all. Kindly advise anyone . Please.
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