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I'm confused

 
 
Reply Wed 30 Nov, 2016 12:17 am
I want to confess my feelings to a girl, but I think she is bisexual and has a crush on another girl. In the past, I have heard that she likes me, but that was like a year ago. I've known her for forever and I don't mind a rejection. Can someone just tell me how to approach her with this so that I can either strengthen our friendship or take it to another level. Thanks!
 
jespah
 
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Reply Wed 30 Nov, 2016 08:37 am
@Thatperson,
"Hi ___, do you want to go out for a pizza/coffee/soda?"

Period. No feeling confessions are necessary. Just ask her out for a non-alcoholic, no-strings-attached time. When it's done, if you enjoyed yourself, say so, and then ask, "How about we make the next time a real date? What day is good for you?"

She can then either say yes and you arrange a date, or she can claim she thought you were just friends and it was a friendly soda or coffee or whatever.

You should not rush into big-time confessions of feelings with, well, anyone. And this also covers her. She can let you down a lot easier and she does not have to explain any feelings she may have about her sexuality as they are, unless you are in a relationship, none of your business.
Thatperson
 
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Reply Wed 30 Nov, 2016 05:42 pm
@jespah,
Thanks. That helps a lot.
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