@CalamityJane,
Hmm. Don't see where I ever indicated I wasn't eating vegetables, or that my eating has become elaborate, but if that's your take on it, ok. I guess I don't mention the vegetables, meaning ones that grow above ground, as that's a given. Vegetables are probably 95% of the net carbs I eat each day. Net carbs are total grams of carbs minus grams of fiber.
I aim for 7 to 9 net carbs per meal, 24 or 25 per day. To put that in perspective 24 net carbs would be any one of the following: 12 small avocados, 24 cups of raw spinach, 3 cups of chopped onion, 4 cups of tomato or equally generous amounts of zucchini, broccoli, cabbage, mushrooms, etc. The thing is you eat them prepared with fat, a lot of it.
On the other hand I think something like 1/2 cup of sweet potato would be an entire days allotment. Not worth it, so no sense even thinking about it. The happy thing is, when the body is running right, you don't think about it.
What I did need to cut out entirely was fruit, as the results of even a small amount wasn't worth it.
When I say elaborate I mean meals that take far too many ingredients that really are just for show, or processed, or trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. An avocado is an avocado, nothing more or less. Cauliflower that's been smashed flat and baked so it hardens up is just making a device to carry other stuff, like oil, cheeses, olives some tomato up to my mouth. I still appreciate it as only cauliflower.
When I say I am a simple eater, it doesn't mean mean I don't get a wide variety of foods. In fact, I don't believe anyone could be successful in eating this way having a limited daily diet. I just generally eat things in their basic state, even if it is cut up with a spiralizer and not a knife.
I gotta be clear. Eating a ketogenic diet isn't about eating in the order you said, vegetables, meat and cheese and fat.
It's about eating FAT, a moderate amount of protein, and Very Low Carb.
That means 60 to 70 percent FAT, 20 percent protein and 5 to 10 percent carbs.
That doesn't mean if you look at a plate of food, most of it is covered with butter, lard, tallow, various oils, etc. It's 70% of your calories that come from fat, not the actual portion of food.
The key is eating more fat, of all the types listed above, than at first you can believe, until you start experiencing the results.
It's really mindful eating for me, as I need to optimize each meal so I don't feel like I'm missing out on something. There is no "I'll just have a little and it won't hurt". I've made mindful decisions 2 or 3 times to eat carbs, knowing the results. The results are you are thrown out of ketosis, and it will take me at least 2 days to be back in it. I know I'm back in it when my body stops sending subtle signals to eat more carbs.
What I've found for myself is it's not about deprivation. It's not wishing you could have a brownie or some thing you see in a commercial or magazine. It's about those things not even being on your radar 99% of the time. On the odd time that it happens, you go eat something with a lot of butter.