@Cathydoesloans,
Does he go to work? Take care of your children (if you have any) at all? Care for your home? Pay bills? Do the food shopping or the laundry?
You're not his slave and you are entitled to a division of labor.
However, I'll ask - is this new behavior, or has he always been like this? Because if it's new, I'd suggest hauling him into couples counseling. If it's not, then you might consider counseling on your own, to figure out how to deal with him, as you seem fed up.