I feel for you, understand. I suppose you have tried various social services, far as you can find them. Some church folks can be a help, I think, at least for advice giving. I had a small bit of help from a local catholic church now some years ago, when I had a massive water leak (this whole neighborhood has had plumbing problems; there was a lawsuit before I moved here, but I was too late to get into it) - and I'm not religious. They didn't care, they just wanted to help people with troubles, and gave me lists of places to call. The red cross helped re the plumbing situation back then, but they cut out doing home repair of that sort a few years later. Anyway, nose around.. the city or county may have help lists.