@MozartLink,
I also live only for myself and my own pleasure. I have no desire to live for my family, the Lord, or anyone else. But I do help my family when they ask me to and I am nice towards them and towards other innocent people.
But for a God to condemn me to hell for living for myself would not be an all-loving God. Instead of a God that loves me and supports my happiness and well-being, this would be a God that demands I live for Him and serve Him.
If God truly loved me, then He would have no problem with things like masturbation, pleasure-seeking, homosexual acts, etc. as long as you are nice and don't harm anyone else. He would not judge those said acts as wrong and condemn you for that.
Now that would be the truly loving God who cares about your happiness and well-being and not the cruel Master who will condemn you for not obeying what He sees fit.
If He was a truly loving God, then He wouldn't care if homosexual acts ruined His image of things since it is not about His images. It would be about His children He cares about. So if He truly cared for them and for their happiness/well-being, He would be perfectly fine with homosexual acts, masturbation, etc.