@maxdancona,
Max, I think you have opened my eyes to an error I've been making for a long time. It has been my assumption that at one time or another, everyone had experienced the kind of love I was talking about.
They are all good, puppy love, erotic love, romantic love, brotherly love, etc. But the love I was talking about is the Greek word in the bible - agape i.e. - love. Maybe that's what some people have called by that wildly inappropriate and disgusting name of 'unconditional love', IDK. But in any case, I'm glad you were able, maybe inadvertently, to make me see I've been 'speaking Greek' to people.
Thanks, and I mean that sincerely.