Loner Troubles

Sooo I am what you call a loner. I like to be by myself A LOT but every once in a while there comes a person that I actually enjoy spending time with. I am a 30 y.o. 5'6 caucasion female and aint bad on the eyes. I'm not simply tooting my own horn, this pertains to this particular situation.

I rarely click with females. It's just the way it is, I feel gossiping is a waste of energy and SHOPPING ALLL the fuckin time is my version of HELL. I am very active, I like to be outside and run and jump and get dirty, like EWWW. Anyways, so I met a guy at a bar and we actually really click. We laugh, we dance, we sing, we act like a buncha lunatics as all the people stare. It's awesome! We've even found ourselves in intellectually stimulating debates. All is peachy keen until... he says he wants to introduce me to his mom.

Last few times we hung out, it would seem that he already mapped our future together as lovers. Opening a potatoe stand at a local flea markey together, meeting the fam, going on week long fishing trips. But I gave him not one indication that I was romatically attracted to him. And I'm not.

So instead to telling him I have no romantic interest in him, I completely ignore him. I love him to death and wish him the best but I don't know if I should flat out tell him there is no chance, or just continue to pretend I'm buzy and cant hang out.

Please help me decide what the heck to do. Thanks in advance!