i miss my brother (hes not dead)

Well, people aren't always around. That's life. Sorry if you don't want to hear this, but it's his decision to study there and you've got to respect that.

Why not write him a letter? You know, with paper and a stamp and all of that? Something heartfelt, maybe funny. If you're not sure of what to write, send a card and write a little about how school is, that sort of thing. I bet he'd be thrilled to get it - handwritten letters are really rare these days.

And hang in there. He won't be gone forever.

Missing someone is hard for all of us because its also sometimes hard to understand all the reasons behind a persons absence. It sounds as if your brother is doing something very noble, culturally important, and highly respected by the Jewish community. I sounds as if your fears for him are natural and normal. Clearly he is taking a risk that he is quite proud and willing to take for a cause that's much bigger than himself. Perhaps one way for you to feel better about his absence is to learn more about what's motivating him, what he is accomplishing and all the positive benefits that are to be had as a result of his decision to go to Israel.

I imagine the rest of your family is feeling very similar to you so don't be afraid t talk about it; this can draw you all closer together. Speak about him often especially all the great things about him.

This is a time that can also strengthen your faith and relationship with God through prayer and scripture reading. God has the power to protect your brother no matter where he may be so I encourage you to rely on your faith and deepen your understanding of your Jewish heritage.