@H4ZE,
It seems like you have exonerated every piece of the system. The links in the system are Internet => Service Provider => Cable or ISDN modem => Router => Computer.
- If it was the Internet, all your devices would be slow and VPN would be slow as well.
- If it was the service provider, the phone and tablet would be as slow as the computer, but VPN which uses a different provider would be fine.
- If it was the modem, all services would be equally slow.
- If it was the router, all services would be equally slow.
- If it was the computer, all services on that computer would be slow, both VPN and direct.
Something is off. Are you sure the phone and tablet are getting the full download speed? As a test, disconnect the router from the cable modem and connect your computer directly to the cable modem by taking the cable from the cable model and directly running into the Ethernet jack on the computer. That takes the router completely out of the loop. If you are still slow, try VPN again and see if that is still fast. Final question, are you directly connected from the computer to the router? If so, try a wireless connection and see if that changes something. Also try changing the port you are plugged into. Note that because the VPN works fine, this is likely not the issue since the router to computer connection is common for both VPN and non-VPN systems.