pronunciation of "neither" in singing

Sing it any way you want as there's no right or wrong. After all, it's art.

It's only rock and roll but I like it.

I am a British English speaker and I can tell you that the idea that there is an "American" way to pronounce either/neither, and one sole "British" way is an American misconception. Within British English, both are OK. "Eether" is more common in the north of England and "eye-ther" in the south of England, with the Midlands and London using both. Pronounce it how you like. Anyhow, if by "Anglican" you mean Episcopalian, although both churches are part of the Anglican communion, I don't think that Lambeth Palace can or even wants to dictate how you sing over there.

how bout "ITHER"? They say it that way in Appalachia.
"Iss Ither this way ern thayt"

Thats a style common from the panhandle of Virginia along the Appalachiaans North just past the Pa line , where the "Eyether/EEther" takes over

Along the Eastern Shore of the Chesapeake they say "Oyther" .

You say 'eether', and I say 'eyether'.

Lets call the whole thing off.

I think I didn't phrase my question very well. I'm wondering about if one of the two pronunciations is preferred for singing. I think certain vowels are preferred over others in singing. And I guess it depends on the style of singing. That's why I mentioned the Anglican (not Episcopal...yes, there are Anglicans in the U.S.!) church. I probably need to put this in a vocal music forum, huh? I can't find the right place to post it.

Thank you for your reply! Of course I've heard it both ways in the U.S. but I didn't know both pronunciations were also in British English. It's not the Archbishop of Canterbury's approval I'm looking for but that of the choral music people.

Neither neither nor neither is neither correct nor incorrect as either neither or neither is correct.

Post the lyrics.

It seems like the only fair thing to do is to switch pronunciations every other time.

Either that, or whatever rhymes, ya know?