Regret of not having been "sexually abused"/ Am I insane ?

@PetiteMarquise,

And you are asking a crew of mostly Americans a question on erotic morality? What, are you nuts? We are the last peoples you should listen to on the subject.

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@FOUND SOUL,

Thank you for answering. =)

I have read a lot of topics. These ones also include hurtful cases - may I be more clear : I know intercourse can hurt children. I know it can cause trauma. The fact is that I believe that in non-violent cases the trauma entirely comes from others' reactions.

How would you explain that children often ask for "it", if "it" was so bad and wrong ?

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@BillRM,

Thank you for your answer. =)

I will most likely never act my fantasies out. It could entail a lot of trouble and I do want to keep me away from that.

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@hawkeye10,

However they certainly witness others' reactions when the pedophilia subject is brought up. They see that most people believe it's a bad thing, therefore they react as what they lived was as wrong as that.

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@hawkeye10,

Thank you for your answer.

I totally agree with what you wrote here. I've often been fantasizing about having intercourse with a much older man. Unfortunately I didn't dare to do anything ; everybody thinks it's so bad that I would have most likely not been taken seriously - people would have believed the man whom I would have made love with would have been manipulating me, and I didn't want that to happen, therefore I've just kept fantasizing.

I don't know why people are still so inhibited with teen sex - I already can barely understand with children, but teens ?

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@BillRM,

Well intercourse are a different matter. It is not inherently bad like drinking, smoking or fighting (In Fance a teenager can have blinding contact).

As for the risk of pregnancy... Well abortions can be done - and without already even thinking about this birth control do exist. Teenagers know about all these things.

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@hawkeye10,

Thank you for your answer. =)

Pedophilia apologia is forbidden in France, therefore I don't know if I can post my worries in a French forum - and sorry but I really don't know how to tell the difference between an English and an American one x).

(However I confess I may be nuts x) )

Why do you write that you are the last people I should listen to ? French people can be kind of brazen too, you know. x)

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@PetiteMarquise,

Quote:

In Illinois, a 19 year old boy had consensual sex
with his 16 year old girlfriend. He is now on the sex
offender registry for 10 years with a felony charge. • In Iowa, two 16 year old teens meet, date and have
sex. It turns out the girl lied about her age, she was
only 13, and he is now on the sex offender registry
for life.
• In Georgia, a 17 year old boy had consensual oral
sex with a 15 year old girl and is now serving a 10
year prison sentence for aggravated child
molestation.
• In Illinois, a teen boy asked a girl if she wanted a
ride. She declined, but because her little sister was
with her, he is now a registered sex offender.
• In Georgia, a 17 year old female is on the sex
offender list for having oral sex with a 15 year old
classmate.
• In Ohio, a 18 year old boy was charged with
unlawful sexual conduct for fondling his 14 year old
girlfriend, who admits she was a willing participant,
while kissing.
• In Massachusetts, 6 boys, aged 12-14, are facing
child pornography charges for texting naked
pictures via text messages.
• In Pennsylvania, 6 teens are being charged with
creating, distributing and possessing child
pornography after nude and partially nude photos
are emailed to one another.
• In Florida, a 16 year old girl and her 17 year old
boyfriend were charged with producing, directing
and promoting child pornography after they
photographed themselves having sex.
• In Ohio, a 15 year old girl was charged with felony
child pornography for sending nude photos of
herself to classmates in a text message.
• In Pittsburgh, a 15 year old girl was arrested for
taking nude photos of herself and posting them on
the internet. She was charged with sexual abuse of
children and possession and dissemination of child
pornography.
• A 20 year old and his 16 year old girlfriend took a
picture of her orally touching him on a cell phone.
He received a 3 year prison sentence and required
to register on the sex offender registry for 25 years

http://www.ilvoices.com/media/Is$20Your$20Teen$20Safe$20Flyer.pdf

Imagine what it would be like to grow up as a 15 year old girl who was interested in sex in America when considering Americans opinions on the subject of sex.

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@BillRM,

I remember as a little playing sexually with other kids my age when I was 5. I played doctor in my backyard, with my parents friends kids, mostly girls but sometimes my boy friends and I would play with each other. Even my sister an I would show each other our parts and touch one another whole young. When I was a little older like 5th an 6th grade my friend and I would masterbate together all the time. I'd even let his little sister play with me, come to think of it there were a lot of my friends that we did that together.

I still have fantasies about kids and playing with them and a nonharming way. I'd not do it do toy age now but I know I love the fantasy and never think about harmful ways. I love when females talk about this because it makes it's a safer way of discussing this type of desire.

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@Alwaysdoinggood1,

You do know that this thread postings of any kind is five years in the past or do you ?

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