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My boyfriend ignores me

 
 
fmsc
 
Reply Sun 10 May, 2015 03:12 pm
My boyfriend and I have been having problems for a while, i found out he cheated on me one drunken night and I forgave him because in the past i cheated and i wish my ex would have forgiven me. i thought after that he would want to make it up to me and treat me better. When we are together in person everything is perfect and its like nothing is wrong, but the minute he leaves its like a completely different person. He doesn't text me. We go days with out talking at all and i don't want to be needy so i just give him his space. He never has time for me so we only see each other like once a week. And when i do text him he straight up ignores me. Posts on social media so i know he has his phone and he just ignores me. What can I do? all my friends think i should just break up with him, but I feel like I would be even more unhappy without him. I just don't know what he wants or what i should do... advice please.
 
Ragman
 
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Reply Sun 10 May, 2015 03:59 pm
@fmsc,
My sympathies to you in this troubling emotional time. With some understanding and some frank discussion on both of your parts you can get past this impasse. - if you both are sincerely willing.

Perhaps the level of commitment is not capable for one or both of you? Have either of you been married or in a serious relationship before? How did that turn out?

That being said, something big is missing from getting an accurate view in this story. There should be something about counseling or a mediator or a discussion about counseling. You both need a perspective from a third party who is objective so you can say to each others there's a breakdown...and the hurt you both are suffering.

Once you go through that step, perhaps you can have forgiveness...but without more real candid discussion there'll be more hurt and suffering. No one deserves that.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Mon 11 May, 2015 06:27 am
You are unhappy WITH him, so what's the difference?

Why do you accept this kind of behavior from this man?

It is because you are anxious, needy and clingy and don't have the strength to stand alone?

Get some personal counseling and find out why you must stay with a person who clearly is not worthy. Or your next BF will treat you the same way. This will become your love-life pattern.
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