@ippn1,
ippn1 wrote: All of that because you have had some bad experinces or have body issues and now im the jackass because i find facial hair on a woman disgusting.
most of us are grown-ups who are strong and confident about ourselves
I don't think putting each other down helps with the discussion - on any side of the discussion.
I'd like to think that you will think about the kind of woman you want to be with and will look for that sort of woman. I also hope that the woman you are attracted to is also attracted to you. You're not a jackass for not finding facial hair attractive (though it significantly limits your options as most adult human women have facial hair of some type). I do think that there is a problem if you think you have a right to tell someone else that they should groom themselves in a particular way for you. That's not part of a good, strong adult relationship.