Your Opinion Men and Woman And There Types Of Pornography

Hi All
I’m starting this desiccation to get a few thing of my chest.
I may start going on and may look like I’m slamming the female gender. But please follow what I’m saying. As men we love woman we can’t help not to
Please all opinions are welcome and open for all
This is not a battle of the sexes just an opinion based desiccation

Fist off let me start with the core of this desiccation “PORNOGRAPHY” and a notes below to non participants

Please to any one reading this and judging you are reading the wrong desiccation to join and you should move on.

Most husbands and wife’s are in a desiccation (fight) regarding this right now. I’m not basing this on any fact but on logic principal. If I’m having this problem right now and I can see all the forms and desiccation's regarding this mater I can safely say I’m not the only one in the howl world in trouble.
Again my wife is not talking to me and I’m being treated like a deviant. Yes it is my fault I was hiding the pornography and yes I have tried covering it up with lies.
I do hide it from my wife as I know it hurts here feelings it makes herself conscious and it makes her wonder what’s going on in my head when we are intimate.
Now you’re wondering if you know all this why do it. TO ESCAPE not just from my wife but from everything. Men are visual and emotion does not always cut it. We can’t kill someone every time something is wrong. Yes a marriage needs to be based on trust, honesty and being open. But why am I going to be open about something where I need to cut you and the rest of the world out. I don’t replace you and the rest with fake boobs and ass I cut out everything it is a way to not think at all. I don’t want to hurt you but I continuously do I know.
We can’t cope with stress the way woman do. We don’t have the support systems you do. We can’t run off to our BFF or a woman whether it be mother, sister ext (woman porn) to put out all our problems and frustrations to. We do that and you get the famous buck up or call boys don’t cry. We can’t do that with our buds. Wondering why? We were never allowed to that is how it is. Blame the army blame what is socially acceptable blame what you want but that is how it is. So we try to cut out everything. Be it with porn or any of the stupid things we do
And we can’t put our problems to our spouses that just makes everything worse.
Some were along the line someone will over you help not your wife thou someone se spoke to about what’s bothering you (here) we know that what is bothering us bothers you . Whether it be money, work or anything stressing us out. That’s not what we want when we talk about a problem we need someone to calmly assess the situation and contribute with a solution. Don’t go to some one ells and find one give a opinion YOURS. If you can’t just say so and don’t go looking for the solution elsewhere we will handle it then. And stop stressing when we do we can only handle one person’s stressing at a time.
That’s why we don’t talk about problems we hide them
What gets me is what I revered to as woman porn Ladies all your BFF’s please we as husbands are your friends YOUR BEST FRIEND and can’t be second to anyone . If you caught any one of your friends doing anything wrong hiding something lying yes you would be mad and hurt but won’t treat them the way you do us when hiding porn from you

This may shed some light on some of the questions woman have about men looking at pornography. I can assure you we don’t mean to hurt you. We are most of all terrified of the times we do as we don’t want to fight not with woman. In a fight of skill, whites and power we are always there. In a battle of emotion we can’t win we are always stepping on toes usually the ones we care for and want on our side

These are my thoughts on the mater not trying to make it right to any one just my opinion.
Would like to hear some of your own