Is loud moaning/screaming during sex a good thing?

Why do people who know the least know it the loudest?

Does this mean you asked the neighbor if there was the screaming/moaning or did the neighbors just offer their views?

Joe(Ya, dot vun, she's a screamuh, she is.)Nation

That's always possible, but if I were the neighbor I'd just be annoyed.

Maybe it was the ex doing the moaning and screaming.

This is all due to the fact that she proclaimed to me that their sex life was no good,,,, so we are now together and go to her old neighbors house for a bbq , where he is drinking and making comments about how loud her voice is, on 2 occasions, when mad, and when having sex... So far I have not called her on her lie to me,,, I am only looking for other opinions on, It would Have to feel good, if she was that loud..... Right??? Or am I wrong??

wrong...lying is common, in this case maybe a woman acting like she likes it for the benefit of the man. vocally indicated enthusiasm during sex is not proof that the sex is good.

How might I be able to decipher the truth??? She is a good woman, and tells me what I want to hear... And yes I understand this may all lead to an insecurity issue of my own...

My ex still moans and screams at me... and we haven't had sex in a long time.

Hey, all kidding aside,

do you like her?
Do you like being intimate with her?
Do you (old fashioned word coming up) court her in scattered moments?
Do you light up so that she can see you light up when she comes into a room?
Do you listen to her as she guides you to what she wants when you are intimate?

If so, that's a good start.

And, you have to believe me, if you are loving her this way, any memory she has of anyone else has been shrunk down to the size of the period at the end of this sentence.

Joe(start now)Nation

she could be faking it and maybe is just a really good actor.

Yelling, "Stop pulling my hair!" is generally not an indicator of good sex.

Your mileage may vary.