for men, is it the same?

No, pussy is not just pussy. There are tight ones and slack ones, fragrant ones and ones that smell like gorilla fart. However to me, the most important aspect of a vajayjay is the human that owns it, and how I feel about them.

The most laudable sentiment . . . but one which, i suspect, the expression of which will have been wasted in this context.

Worst. Commencement. Address. Ever.

I am absolutely sure that you are correct, and that leads me to say something to the original poster (cherriepye67): If you think of sex as a matter of "dick" and "pussy", then I think you must be very immature, or very limited emotionally, and possibly lying about your gender (or all three, they fit together) and I should imagine that sex with you would be a grim business for anyone with an ounce of feeling. So if you want an explanation of why sex is sometimes not very satisfactory, then look inside yourself. If you are not actually just trolling for attention, which ties in with the first two of the personal qualities I mentioned earlier.

i agree... and i guess i could have worded my question a little better at the time, but i was upset and just blurted it out! reason being i have been w/my babys daddy for almost 20 yrs and no matter how or what we try he cannot make me climax by penetration and its frustrating. he's a great lover but when it comes to intercourse he's got no game if he does its over before his game could kick in. it has been like that since ive been with him. i should have known something wasn't right in the begining because he came in his pants when just kissing....awww i love him though. thanks for putting me in check. ive learned to live without it n i dont go looking for it elswhere. not worth it. ok thx again!

not nessecarily, i apologize for the way that sounded when i had asked. i didn't realise how shallow it sounded, but i was a lil angry at the time because i've been with my babys daddy for almost 20 yrs and no matter what or how we try he cannot bring me to climax by penetrating me. i have just learned to live without it and so has he and neither of us look for it elswhere because we don't want to be with anyone else. however every now and then we will have sex and i get really pissed afterwards because i get absoulutly nothing out of it. it literally takes me longer to pull my panties down than it does for him to cum. we could do it 3-4 times a day with the same outcome. he isn't able to get hard after he cums for at least a couple hours so that trick isn't the answer either. im over it already and have come to realize that this is how my sex life is bar none. thx for ur reply!

WOW all untrue...but the way i worded my question made me sound that way. i have been with the same person for twenty yrs and remain faithfull however in that twenty yrs he has not been able to bring me to climax by penetration, maybe 5 or 6 times max and that was because i was on top and had to fight for it with a limp dick. not trying to be mean but its very frustrating when it takes longer to get undressed than it does the act of making love. its not even making love. you make love to one another but its over before anything could be made between us. it has always been that way and i have just learned to live without it. but thanks for your honesty and reply.