@CalamityJane,
CalamityJane wrote:
I make snap judgements with names. We had a psycho "Shela" secretary
and I put every "Shela" I meet in the same category. Dto. with "Norma" and some other names I have bad associations with.
I know what you mean.
For years I took an automatic dislike to any guy named Scott.
Over a period of years I met half a dozen Scotts in a row who were really deficient in one way or another.
I also don't like the name Michael. If someone calls themselves Mike, I don't even pay attention. But Michael sound like a wuss. This came from meeting a couple of guys who called themselves Mike, everyone called them Mike, but when their girlfriends were around, they would call them Michael.
For the next type of person, I wouldn't have even noticied if they said this when I was young, but having lived in various areas of the country, most notably in this case parts of the south. It's people that within a short time of meeting them tell you they're a Christian.
I get the same nails on a blackboard feeling up my spine at that, and I immediately mistrust them.
I feel like they're either using that as some code word to see if I'm going to bite, or that they're setting me up because they're planning on being petty, or screw me over something.
I don't care if you're a "christian", just don't tell me about it, especially when we've known each other 10 minutes.
I feel the same way about people who have to tell you they're a vegetarian as soon as possible upon meeting you. The ones who launch off relating any random thing to their eating habits, but never asking you if you're one too. Like it's some unique, or at least unusual thing.