@fresco,
If you recall, I'm going for respect (as per the title) whereas you are going for deference (which is a whole 'nother can of worms as to whether I should submit).
respect:
esteem for or a sense of the worth or excellence of a person, a personal quality or ability, or something considered as a manifestation of a personal quality or ability
deference:
respectful submission or yielding to the judgment, opinion, will, etc., of another