@markr,
A three sampling situation of {1,2,3} would give you a sample space like a Rubiks cube.
1,2,3 would make a number line on each of the x,y,z axes (origin left hand corner). So to count the triples (conjoint events) involving item 1, start with all nine cubes in the x-y plane (z=1) then add the six remaining cubes in the y-z plane (x=1) and finally the four remaining cubes in the x-z plane (y=1). 9+6+4=19